Giveaway: Internet Filter and Accountability Software

Internet filtering and accountabilityThe Internet gives us access to every corner of the globe, but unfortunately it opens us up to some of the darkest corners as well. This concerns me as a Christian, as a husband, and as a father.

  • As a Christian, I am concerned because I am tempted to spend time online in ways that steal my attention away from God.
  • As a husband, I am concerned because I am tempted to view things online that stir up lust and dishonor my wife.
  • As a father, I am concerned because I know my young boys are growing up in a world with the same temptations.

5 Stats That Should Concern Every Parent

According to Covenant Eyes

Mama Bundles: Giveaways Worth More Than $190!

Easy Peasy Chores Cover

I’m excited to present to you our next set of giveaways: some mama packages! There are two packages, each a little different. Both packages come with a couple of books that should interest you, some fun little trinkets, a DVD you can feel good about letting your kids watch, and a chore system!

(I have a copy of Easy Peasy Chores that I’ve started to look through and I’m super excited to start implementing it at my house. I’m hoping it will help us get a little bit more organized. I’ll be sure to report back on how it’s going after I’ve had a chance to use it.)

There really are so many great resources in these packages though, so be sure to enter one or both of the giveaways! Here are the details…

Mama Package #1 [Read more...]

Encouragement for the First Time Mom: When Breastfeeding Isn’t Easy

Encouragement for First Time Moms: When Breastfeeding Isn't Easy

I was so excited about the idea of breastfeeding my baby. Soon after we found out that we were expecting, I began doing something I discovered a love for in college—research. So, so much research. I was really good at studying and getting good grades in college. What was the secret to my success? I’m a nerd and loved research. Surely, I could just apply the same principles that brought me college success to parenting, and soon enough, I’d be an expert mom.

It didn’t take long for me to discover the many benefits of breastfeedingbenefits which compounded by the month, and benefits that I definitely wanted in my baby’s life. [Read more...]

Dispelling 12 Breastfeeding Myths

Dispelling myths about breastfeeding has been a huge passion of mine ever since I began to realize that low breastfeeding rates can be attributed to the massive amount of misinformation out there. I have talked to so many women who thought they had to stop nursing for one reason or another, even though the nursing relationship was still mutually beneficial for them and their babies.

Obviously each family must make decisions that are right for their individual circumstances. Making these decisions in a fully informed manner can help mothers know they made the best decisions possible for the circumstances they were in at the time—with full knowledge.

12 Breastfeeding Myths

Breastfeeding Myth #1

Mothers with small breasts will not make enough milk.

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What I Wish I Had Known: 12 Breastfeeding Tips for First Time Moms

Breastfeeding can be intimidating. We all have heard time and again it is the best choice for babies. Everyone has their own list of reasons about why you should breastfeed.

As you consider breastfeeding, or maybe just want to know other people’s thoughts about it, here are some breastfeeding tips I wish I had known from the start. I hope these will help you, as you make the best choices for your family. I knew before my first son was born that I wanted to breastfeed. I was positive that it was the best choice for me and for him.

Unfortunately, there were a lot of things I did not know until after I started. Some of these things took me more than one baby to figure out!

12 Breastfeeding Tips for Moms

1. Everyone is an “Expert”

“He’s not getting enough,” “you should only nurse on one side per feeding,” “Never eat onions.” The list goes on and on. Everyone has advice about what you should do and how you should breastfeed your baby. [Read more...]

Navigating the Booby Trap: Breastfeeding & Beyond (Featured Authors)

Are you a breastfeeding mom or a soon to be breastfeeding mom? This series is for you! I’m so excited to be bringing you 40 posts from 25 amazing bloggers and authors. We have a wide range of topics: breastfeeding advice for new moms, breastfeeding in the NICU, treating thrush and mastitis naturally, breastfeeding multiples, breastfeeding in public, weaning, and many many more subjects.

Our series will begin 3 weeks from today, February 1, 2013.  I hope you’ll join us for tips, advice, and educational articles from some wonderful some wonderful guest authors on how to “Navigate the Booby Trap!”  [Read more...]

Three for Thursday: Featured Posts For the Week of 11/8/12

Homeschool

Developing Independent Learners

As a homeschooling mom of four boys, including twin 1 year olds, independence in my older boys is something that is greatly valued! This post, from Not Consumed, is full of tips and ideas on how to help your children develop into independent learners.  She also delves into why it’s important to develop independent learners. HINT: it’s not just for Mom’s sanity (though that is a good reason too) :)

Recipe

Sugar-Free Key Lime Pie (Gluten-Free too!)

Lauren, from the Healthy Indulgences blog, has done it again! She has created a fabulous healthy dessert my whole family loves. My husband, who adores key lime pie, took to this sugar-free, gluten-free key lime pie right away. If you’re on a low-carb diet, trying to cut back on sugar, you’re gluten-free, or just want a delicious healthy alternative on a classic dessert, be sure to give this a try. While you’re getting the recipe be sure to check out some of Lauren’s other recipes. She has some amazing recipes. I aspire to be the cook she is one day! :)

Christian Parenting

Why We Do “Chili Cheese Dog Adventures” 

Ironically, this post is not really about food. It’s about parenting. Brad Hambrick challenged me again with yet another simple but clever idea.

After his family moved to North Carolina last year so Brad could take a new ministry position, he noticed neither of his sons were really “putting down roots,” so to speak. Brad heard his kids talking about where they would like to move next. If his family was going to live out missional lives in their new city, Brad wanted them to “feel at home” there.

What did he do? They did an on-line search for all the hotdog joints in their area. Now whenever they have a free afternoon, they hit one, and this always makes for great conversations.

I love this kind of intentional parenting. Brad is intentional about helping his boys bond with their new city. He is intentional about strengthening their relationship and building memories. He is intentional about helping his boys make the emotional connection: following God is not just about giving up something for God, it is also about gaining something.

Two thoughts I had after reading this: (1) Discipleship is rooted in relationship, so how can I develop my relationship with my boys in a way that prepares the way for my discipleship efforts? (2) How can I lead my family in living missional lives in our city?

 

What is Classical Christian Education?

classical christian educationLast week I was asked to speak to the parents involved in our homeschooling co-op, Coram Deo, about what Classical Christian Education is. Below is the text of my brief explanation. Certainly more can be said about the value and distinctiveness of Classical Ed, but this was my 5-minute pitch.

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Nelson Mandela has rightly said that education is the most powerful weapon with which you can use to change the world. As homeschooling parents we not only have the opportunity to directly influence what our children learn, we also have the opportunity to mold them into young men and women who will be equipped to change the world. We want their education to be the absolute best it can be.

Our homeschool co-op believes the best way to educate our children is to use a model of Classical Christian Education, tapping into the rich tradition of education we’ve inherited as Christians in our western culture.

We need to ask: What is Classical Christian Education? This is important for any parent involved in a Classical Ed co-op or school to understand. [Read more...]

Why I Baptized My Babies: A Father’s Journey to Paedobaptism

Thanks to everyone who has been reading my series on infant baptism. I’ve tried to outline the reasons why my opinion shifted from a creedobaptism to a paedobaptism position.

Below you’ll see a listing of all the posts in this series.

paedobaptism

Part 1 - Covenant Kids

What started my journey was the nagging question: Just how does God see my kids? As part of the church? Totally lost? His people? Pagans? I started out completely closed to the idea of paedobaptism. But I wanted to know who my children were in the eyes of God. This opened the door to my exploration.

Part 2 - All in the Family

My first stop along this journey was when I started to embrace a more biblical view of the family. While I didn’t find paedobaptism arguments convincing yet, I found myself more and more drawn to their understanding of God’s covenant community and covenant family.

Part 3 - My Objections

I had some serious objections to infant baptism. This post outlines 4 critical ones.

Part 4 - Circumcision: A Seal of the Promise

If it’s true that infants in the church should be baptized like those in the old covenant were circumcised, this would mean that circumcision held profound spiritual significance. But as someone from a baptistic background, I believed circumcision was merely a mark of Jewish ethnic identity. I needed to have this notion overturned.

Part 5 - God’s Generational Faithfulness

One of the reasons I rejected the idea of paedobaptism was because I believed an advantage of the new covenant was that only professing believers would be considered a part of God’s people. Therefore only believers should be given the mark of membership. The old covenant was too inclusive, I thought, embracing members by virtue of their parentage and not their faith. In order to buy into infant baptism, this assumption needed to be dismantled.

Part 6 - From Circumcision to Baptism

In order to believe in infant baptism, I needed to believe baptism somehow replaced circumcision, but there are no statements in the Bible to this effect. Why do paedobaptists believe baptism is the New Testament counterpart to circumcision?

Part 7 - Baptized Born Again Believers

My biggest objection to paedobaptism was my belief that baptism is always linked to a personal profession of faith and a believer’s personal union with Christ. How could an infant be united to Christ? How could we baptize someone who is unable to profess faith? If paedobaptists couldn’t explain this one, there was no way they would win me to their side.

Part 8 - The Household Connection

With my objections answered, I searched for some sign from the New Testament that baptism was for more than just professing believers. I originally believed the absence of infant baptisms in the Bible was a clear indication that it was wrong: I later came to see this silence as one of the greatest arguments for it.

Part 9 – The Difference It Makes

Since my children have been baptized, how has this new theological position changed the way I think about baptism? About God? About my kids?

Why I Baptized My Babies (Part 9)

infant baptismIn these last 8 posts I’ve been telling the story of my move from the Baptist to the paedobaptist position. While I’ve attempted to give a reasoned defense of this position, my posts are as much biographical as they are theological. I’ve only outlined specific aspects of this debate with which I personally wrestled, certainly not every possible angle or every relevant Bible passage.

For this final post, I want to share what difference this change has made in my life.

How I understand infant baptism

I used to believe baptism was first and foremost saying something about me: I am united with Christ; I am forgiven; I am born again. But now I see baptism as first something about Christ.

Credobaptists and paedobaptists alike agree that the act of baptism symbolizes or demonstrates spiritual realities. But historically there has been a great divergence of opinion over what exactly it symbolized in baptism. [Read more...]